You may or may not be changed 
How strange are the cycles of life.
one another, take turns, but eventually evolve are always the same.
so if I do not understand is why it must or because we do not learn enough from our mistakes and especially by those around us, those who came before us and constantly warns.
The parent-child relationship, for example.
They are always the ones who tell you to do what is right and what is not appropriate or not but we rightly reply that this is our life and that we should live our freedom in interpretation, even wrong.
In part I think is right but I think it is also important to stop and observe a little and reflect.
This was my attitude towards my parents, their history, especially personal.
I looked a long time. What I noticed first and on which I dwelt for so long is what I like them.
What characteristics of one and the I identified and isolated after they have analyzed.
I tried to make the most of what I considered the merits and defects fought decision.
This was a personal school of life that helped me a lot.
say that the example is important and what's more neutral, pure and close to the example of your parents.
The example is not only positive and negative. Let me explain.
Being able to identify a fault just is not easy even though that may seem.
I speak of offensive and destructive sides of his character person defects can be as harmless as I know ... the touchiness, stubbornness.
unfold And see these defects on the person most dear to you as a parent I can be very effective.
because it affects more than any other seen to be a negative attitude which was made by someone you love deeply.
So how easy it is worthy of pride and think to be like my mom, like my father ect .. I think it is equally worthy of being considered the thought of NOT WANT TO BE IN A CERTAIN WAY.
From there, however, the road is all uphill.
because one thing is not to be like in the end actually you are not, why not yours that characteristic.
If I am generous in nature I feel very easy to say not want to be stingy, so to speak.
But recognize that they are stingy, recognize that this be a defect (Personally speaking of course) is already a step forward, because it seems silly but always tend to justify our shortcomings in some way.
not doing so would mean admitting to be in default (nice play on words!) And is neither easy nor pretty.
I got back to me I have isolated many defects. First I masked them, then I've interpreted as "meaning migliore del termine" poi li ho guardati in faccia e alla fine mi sono arresa:erano miei.
Alcuni erano bruttissimi, altri sono ingestibili, altri ancora malleabili.
Sono arrivata a definirmi una mediocre.
Ma sono in perenne lotta con loro e tornando al discorso dei genitori, specialmente ho combattuto quelli che vedevo essere un'eredità se cosi possiamo dire, perchè me li vedevo sbattuti in faccia ogni giorno e pensavo: non voglio essere cosi.
Tutto questo forse letto cosi può sembrare brutto o scortese anche ,ma credo sia una forma di crescita facilmente sperimentabile e molto efficace.
Io ringrazio ogni giorno i miei genitori per this, by their example, of course positive but also negative, with the loading of their faults, errors and mistakes, I have paved the road.
course here I'm talking about flaws and nothing else then I will not highlight the many advantages for my parents and all who gave me valuable lessons.
speak directly to the fact that they know, like maybe in turn we know when we talk with our children, that much we can not dare, we can not reveal what and how life is.
But in the end seems to be a circle ... things are repeated and experiences at the end seem to be all the same but maybe it can not be just so.
Maybe you can learn from some mistakes, some things can be avoided or maybe not.
Maybe I am still the same old dreamer who believes he can not change the world but believes strongly that we can change one's own person to make them proud of being.
me at least I hope and work for it.
And Amen!
